I love my life. Paul and I lead a great Bible College and Graduate School and although life is busy it is full of fun. I must admit that there are times I am too busy and I don't take the time to stop and smell the roses.
I don't want to end my life with regrets. When I breathe my last breath I want to exhale with satisfaction knowing that I engaged life to the full. Some of you reading my blog may be significantly younger than me and some might be older, but whatever season you are in I urge you to engage it to the full. Here are a few principles to help you to love this season you are in right now.
1. Don't live in the past: Paul said in Philippians 3:13 "Forgetting what is behind and straining toward what is ahead...' Yesterday is gone and we are not going to get it back. Sitting and reminding yourself of yesterday won't help you to engage today. Remembering the hurts and licking your wounds will not enable you to live life to the full. I understand that there are hurtful experiences that we need to navigate and some of those we have to carry into this day in order to work through them. However, I think you understand what I am saying here. Don't let petty and silly things keep you from engaging your day.
2. Don't live in the future: Some of us live only for tomorrow. We can't wait to finish this or that and to move onto the next best thing. Sometimes we live for a future that will never be. The bible talks about living for today. Tomorrow may have all sorts of exciting adventures for you, but you need to enjoy this day.
3. Live with gratitude: I looked in the mirror the other day and realized that I am looking older. I almost said; "I don't like getting older', butI stopped myself because I realize that behind every wrinkle is a story. Yes, those stories have given me a perspective on life I would never have if I had not lived my life to the full. The outward part of me is growing older, but I still feel vibrant and jubilant on the outside. I wake up every day with joy. When you or someone in your family has stood at the door of death you know that each day really does count. I live with deep gratitude that I have today and I want to live it to the full.
4. Don't hold grudges: We have probably all experienced varying degrees of hurt in our lives. We have experienced failure and probably have some regrets. There is one emotion that we definitely do not want to engender in our lives and that is bitterness. When we hold anger or unforgiveness in our hearts it prevents us from engaging this day. So, my word of advice is to let go of the anger and bitterness so that you can live today to the full.
My prayer is that you will engage this day and this season of your life. The circumstances may not be perfect, but take the time to smell the roses and to truly taste your coffee. When you look for the joy in life it will surprise you at how much fun you can start having.
I am loving this season of my life. Yes, there have been challenges along the way and they have certainly left their mark on me, but they have given me a perspective on life that helps me to engage this day and live it to the full.
I am and always will be,
recklessly abandoned, ruthlessly committed and in relentless pursuit of Jesus,